Overcome Self Consciousness
The essential guide to develop True Self Esteem to overcome self consciousness and the fear of being judged, especially at work.
If you are a self conscious professional who wants to stop holding yourself back and live a more joyful, vibrant life, feeling free to express yourself and contribute more at work, then this is your next step.
From learning about True Self Esteem, you will:
This course is for you if:
You suffer from Self Consciousness and are ready to overcome this.
Self Conscious Professionals usually:
You want a strong, robust self esteem and unstoppable self confidence
You fear being in the spotlight and are holding yourself back and missing opportunities
You find you have a negative reaction physically when other people’s attention is on you, like:
This course solves these needs:
At the end of this course, you will be able to:
Included as a complimentary bonus is the ebook "Consciously Shine", about the quickest single thing you can do to overcome self consciousness and speak up and shine, especially at work, valued at USD 6.70 (excl VAT).
Testimonials
Sherilyn
Before today I did not know the difference between self-esteem and self-confidence. Now that I do know the difference, I will never allow myself to feel worthless ever again and because of this, I will have the confidence to attempt new things and if I fail, I will see it as an opportunity to improve myself rather than allow it to make me feel of a lesser value.”
Natasha Chetty
"This is a brilliant course that provided insight to how my thoughts and behaviours stifled my potential at work and at home. It then provided me with tools and information and with 100% self-esteem, valuing who I am and what I have to offer the world, as well as valuing others. It has helped me to practice courage and confidence in all that I do. Mostly it helped me to think about how I react to stimuli and how to use filters to promote healthy behaviour... It is a life-changing course. Thank you Telana."
Marsha Massyn-Loubser
"The fundamental principles explained during the course when applied to my life, changed my life significantly. It removed my fears, self-doubt and self sabotaging behaviour. I'm now equipped and empowered to enjoy life's challenges. Thanks for opening my eyes to a new world Telana!"
Telana Simpson
My Story and why I can support you on this journey:
I’ve been there in the past: labelled shy and self conscious. I used to blush so much that, for example, I would only approach my professor after class, and she would be visibly uncomfortable as I gushed out my question, red in the face. I was reserved in groups, and the most common question I was asked was “Why are you so quiet and shy?”
I feared conflict so much that I would not share my views or ask for what I needed for fear of what others would think and say about me. I outsourced any speaking that was needed, like welcome speeches at the big charity events I organised.
I was so out of balance because I focused more on other people’s needs and helping them that I neglected myself and my own work and deadlines. The turning point for me was some serious health challenges that lead me to finding the useful ideas and tools from the fields of coaching, the cognitive behavioural sciences, positive psychology and neuro-psychology, and consciousness evolution.
I changed and I am still growing and learning - in terms of speaking up more and adding value to the world. I have now done talks in front of hundreds of people. I’ve been interviewed on radio and TV, and even hosted a short series programme on Summit TV. I’ve been hosting my own internet TV shows for years, and I’ve chaired board meetings without blushing – actually, I haven’t blushed like I used to at university for years now!
I thrive on feedback and don’t fear conflict – if anything I’m more skilled at confrontation than most, and see it as useful and a necessary part of life and relationships. My health has improved significantly and I experience more quality relationships and am equally ok with being alone.
So when I say I know what it’s like living with negative self consciousness, and that it can be changed and overcome, I am speaking from experience as a living example, and from coaching clients through these challenges for over a decade now.
Welcome
What is Self Consciousness?
Consciously Shine - eBook
How we get results in life
Why we look at Self Esteem
Conditional or Unconditional Self Esteem
Self Esteem- conditional or unconditional - Questionnaire
The Key Distinction
Application Form
Stage 1 - Cognitive Decision
Stage 2 - Develop Self Compassion
Stage 3 - Develop Self Confidence
Stage 4 - Get in touch with your Beingness
Worksheet One - Living from True Self Esteem
Applying to Self Consciousness at Work
Worksheet Two - My Action Plan for Positive Self Consciousness
Closing
Checklist for Positive Self Consciousness
Discussion Forum to share ideas and ask questions
References and Bibliography
Let this be the moment you no longer hold yourself back with negative self consciousness.